Around the world, International Women’s Day is marked every year on March 8 to celebrate the participation, contribution, and achievements of women in society. In Fakir Bagan, women live day-to-day taking care of their children and husbands, and have little time to think about themselves. They live in a male dominated environment where alcohol abuse, verbal abuse, and domestic violence is considered a norm that they must accept. Women who earn an income to support the family not only face the same issues, but also face the problem of having their hard earned money taken away by their husbands to spend on alcohol or cigarettes. It is still a struggle for women in this community to make their own voices heard and to be aware of their rights and needs as women.
On the afternoon of March 7, Calcutta Kids held an early celebration of International Women’s Day in our Maa o Shishu Shiksha Kendra (Mother and Child Learning Center) in Fakir Bagan. Members of our women’s support group and their friends from the community joined in the celebration. We celebrated the immense strength women exhibit in their day to day lives throughout the year, recognizing the unlimited sacrifices made by women in this community.
During the event, our program coordinator Sumana helped the community reflect on the status of women in society, how to create awareness about women’s rights, and to think about approaches to empower women in Fakir Bagan. One beneficiary Hira Poddar, said, “These forums allow us the opportunity to get together and share our problems and gain strength from each other.” Another beneficiary, Mira Shaw, a single mother and sole income earner whose husband left her with two young children said, “I am very happy with my life because I can take responsibility for my own life and take good care of my children.”
After the staff members and women spoke, we stood in a circle and sang We Shall Overcome. The then danced to Bollywood music and played with Holi colors! It was a wonderful celebration and a reminder to all of us at Calcutta Kids to continue striving to create a space where women’s voices can be heard. –Danya Sarkar